Microwaves and Men – Serving Traditions with a Side of Convenience
I recently stumbled upon a video discussing the demands of traditional men in today’s modern world. It seems some gentlemen have quite specific ideas about how they should be treated, whether it involves the wonders of modern microwaves or the time-honored methods of our ancestors. Personally, I don’t see what all the fuss is about. Whether we’re zapping meals in a microwave or stirring a pot over an open fire, us women will always serve our men with love and dedication.
Marriage, after all, is a commitment to embrace partners with diverse backgrounds and beliefs. When we take those vows, we promise to cherish and respect each other. Some husbands and wives have particular preferences on how they wish to be treated, and that’s perfectly alright as long as their desires align with decency and respect, without demeaning anyone. So, if it means waking up before dawn to prepare traditional millet bread (known fondly as Kalo) over a crackling fire, paired with smoked cow head meat and scented water from a trusty old pot, alongside a side dish of katunkuma (those little bitter eggplants), count me in. Love, after all, comes with its share of inconveniences and joys.
Navigating marriage means balancing old traditions with modern comforts. It’s about finding that sweet spot where both partners find happiness and comfort. Sometimes, it means going the extra mile, no matter how inconvenient it may seem. It’s about giving without expecting much in return, a lesson for our young people considering the plunge into marriage. Don’t be scared off by the tales of high expectations; with dedication and understanding, you’ll find your way.
And to my dear brother Andrew Kyamagero, let’s discuss this at the Man Cave Uganda this Saturday. I’m sure we’ll have plenty to share, and yes, let’s give the women their chance to speak too! Laughter and learning await us all.
Article by Mercy K. Kainobwisho, Registrar General (Uganda Registration Services Bureau), Advocate of Courts of Judicature, Legal Specialist in Intellectual Property and Business Law, Rotarian.
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